Join Gus for another thought from the road, this series comes to you straight from the airport lounges, hotels and AirBnB’s around the world.
Don’t let anyone’s realistic expectations destroy your unrealistic dreams!
Somebody needs to be unrealistic at some point in time to create new realities.
The damage we unintentionally cause in the development of our kids through the school system is often a worry for me, situations that may seem small have a powerful long lasting impact happen every day.
My 12-year-old and the rest of the class had to do a budgeting exercise at school a few days ago. The idea is to first identify what your income would be in 10 years’ time and then figure housing, expenses, food, etc. and conclude with savings.
He looks up the average income of a professional NFL player, writes down $20m per year and starts the exercise. The teacher says “it’s going to be hard to figure out costs in America....let’s pick something more “realistic”. The teacher then convinces him on a Job as a chef for $70k per year.
I was not impressed. That night I told my kids: “my life has been anything but realistic, someone has to be unrealistic at some point in time for new realities to exist. Our life right now is unrealistic but here we are, forging forward carving our unrealistic path, not someone else’s realistic path. Kids! Unrealistic is critical”